The Anxiety & OCD Blog

Reflections And Insights From Theresa Schaffer

 

Online Therapist for Anxiety, OCD & Substance Use

What Social Anxiety Actually Feels Like In Your Body

Heat rising up your neck. A voice that comes out shakier than you meant it to. Your mind going completely blank mid-sentence while everyone waits for you to finish the thought. Social anxiety doesn’t just live in your head. It’s a full-body event, and the physical part is

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The Safety Behaviors That Keep Social Anxiety Going

Rehearsing what you’re going to say before you walk into a room. Holding a drink so your hands have something to do. Avoiding eye contact, checking your phone at a party, arriving late so you don’t have to make small talk while people trickle in. None of that

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Why Panic Attacks Feel Like You’re Dying

Racing heart. Chest tightening like something is sitting on it. The sudden, total certainty that you’re having a heart attack, losing your mind, or about to die right where you’re standing. If you’ve had a panic attack, none of that needs explaining. What might actually help is understanding

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Can Panic Attacks Last for Days?

No. A panic attack itself, the acute wave of adrenaline and physical symptoms, peaks within about ten minutes and is over within twenty to thirty. If it feels like yours have lasted for days, what you’re actually describing is something else: back-to-back attacks, or the exhausting state your

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Social Anxiety and Introversion Are Not the Same Thing

People conflate these two constantly, and it matters that they don’t. Not because one is worse than the other, but because they require completely different responses. One is a personality trait. The other is an anxiety disorder. Treating them the same way leads a lot of people to

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Social Anxiety Is a Prediction Problem

Your brain is making predictions constantly. Most of the time this is useful. You predict that the stove is hot based on prior experience and you don’t touch it. Efficient. The problem with social anxiety is that your brain is running the same kind of prediction engine in

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